Saturday, November 6, 2010

there is no such thing as strangers, just friends you didnt know you had.

i just finished talking to people i dont know on the internet. when i was little i was always told not to talk to strangers, easy for me because ive always been so shy and had a hard time talking to anybody. but over the past year and a half ive been changing that, ive been forcing myself to go out to social events, to meet new people. ive been trying to expand my group of friends beyond my small circle. im good friends now with more people i went to high school with than i was when i was in high school. i even talk to the girl i had a crush on those 4 years. i found out that she had a crush on me then to. if i had only had the balls then to talk to her, highschool probably wouldnt have sucked so badly. and things might be getting better because she just broke up with her boyfriend. im just being cautious right now on making a move and asking her on a date because i dont want to be just a rebound for her to get back at him with. and i finally realized its time to move on from the last girl i was talking to. i talk to some of her friends and i know they dont really care for the guy she is with and they all tell me what a better guy i am than he is. if she cant see that, then she wasnt worth my time i wasted on her.

7 comments:

  1. Best to give her some time if she has just broken up with her boyfriend. But not too long or you will miss your chance.

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  2. Sounds like something I need to do. Get out more and just talking to people.

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  3. Give her some time Phil is right but while giving her time comfort her

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  4. Good for you man. Keep at it

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  5. almost fucked shit up the other day with her because of a facebook status she put that i blew out of proportion that led to an argument. she said she hated me but some how i managed to get her number out of it and were supposed to hang out soon when i apologized. sometimes fucking up is exactly what you have to do in order to get what you want.

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